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sexslave4u
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Love=Hate

Why is it that everyone has to ruin a good thing with the word love this to me is a major mistake I hate love. Found it once and ever since then I have learned to hate it. I loved James and when he got me pregnant he left me why?? Because he was poor and didn’t want his child to be like him. Unfortunately I lost the baby and he to now my new boyfriend tells me that he loves me and I feel a cold chill I hate the word and wish that it would never be spoken to me again.

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That's the way of the world.
One asshole can't dictate the behaviors of all men.
You just gotta dig in there,again and again if need be.
Or you'll live a life always on the computer,day in...day out....(snif..)

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Waiter? Can I have a little more angst with my fries? Thanks.

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You just lay there don't ya?

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quote:
Originally posted by SocialParasite
Waiter? Can I have a little more angst with my fries? Thanks.


And could you add a side of punctuation?

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No way! Run-on sentences are "da bomb, yo."

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a wise man once said:

Love; love is the answer
When I think about love
don't think about bright moons
twinkling stars
red wine
silent whispers
holding hands
secret love letters
I'm thinking about pure sex, deep sex, hard sex, rough sex
Love; love is the answer
When I think about love
Don't think about candle lights
red roses
wedding bells
moonlight serenades
warm summer nights
table for two
I'm thinking about pure sex, deep sex, hard sex, rough sex
Love; love is the answer



the book of 4b 7:13

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Where can I buy a copy of that book?

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It would sell.
That would rule.

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Talarohk
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I'm sorry you lost your baby, sexslave. I can't imagine what that must be like.
For whatever it's worth, I have found that love comes in a lot of forms, and many more people say "love" than really mean it. I know that while I was in high school, I fell in love several times...but now, looking back, it was not the kind of love of which I am capable now. Love changes, and expands as you grow.

I dn't think you should necessarily equate your boyfriend's statement of love with "eternal, undying, self-sacrificing, worldshaking love". Maybe just take it as an expression that he cares for you a good deal, and let it be at that. Love is good, and in the end it can save us all, but it can also just be a way of expressing affection. His love may not mean marriage; it might not even particularly carry obligation.

Love with a full heart, but with open eyes.

Anyway, that's my thinking.

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Talarohk, I almost think you're aggressively benevolent and accepting!


How did you become a squid, by the way? One of my dearest friends here was nicknamed "squid" by her husband.

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tojo
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I totally sympathize with you sexslave. A few things I would like to say though. For one, the 'he got me pregnant' thing, I was under the impression that it takes two. For two, how can you let one person's immaturity and ignorace close off the greatest gift you could ever hold inside you? For three, I personally would be more upset over the child I lost than the love of some man that walked out on me.
Don't take those statements the wrong way. I just feel that love is such a precious gift. I also believe Talarhok makes a fantastic point. Love has so many degrees. I have come to see that also through my life. I have learned no to take love for granted. I would so much rather go through life with my heart open, yet cautious...then to close it off all together. How sad is your life if you close love completely out of it?

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Love is something that should be eyed with suspition.

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I totally agree.....eyed...not shut out.

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quote:
Originally posted by Talarohk
I'm sorry you lost your baby, sexslave. I can't imagine what that must be like.
For whatever it's worth, I have found that love comes in a lot of forms, and many more people say "love" than really mean it. I know that while I was in high school, I fell in love several times...but now, looking back, it was not the kind of love of which I am capable now. Love changes, and expands as you grow.

I dn't think you should necessarily equate your boyfriend's statement of love with "eternal, undying, self-sacrificing, worldshaking love". Maybe just take it as an expression that he cares for you a good deal, and let it be at that. Love is good, and in the end it can save us all, but it can also just be a way of expressing affection. His love may not mean marriage; it might not even particularly carry obligation.

Love with a full heart, but with open eyes.

Anyway, that's my thinking.



What Tal's really saying here is "fuck off and die, sexslave4u."

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quote:
Originally posted by Talarohk
I'm sorry you lost your baby, sexslave. I can't imagine what that must be like.
For whatever it's worth, I have found that love comes in a lot of forms, and many more people say "love" than really mean it. I know that while I was in high school, I fell in love several times...but now, looking back, it was not the kind of love of which I am capable now. Love changes, and expands as you grow.

I dn't think you should necessarily equate your boyfriend's statement of love with "eternal, undying, self-sacrificing, worldshaking love". Maybe just take it as an expression that he cares for you a good deal, and let it be at that. Love is good, and in the end it can save us all, but it can also just be a way of expressing affection. His love may not mean marriage; it might not even particularly carry obligation.

Love with a full heart, but with open eyes.

Anyway, that's my thinking.



Even I have not started so many sentences with 'I' in any post of moral dictate.
That's the lesson - love yourself.

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a self-styled sex-slave should not be bitchin about either bein made pregnant, or love.

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Bibrau
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I thought you were gay. ???

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Re: Love=Hate

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Originally posted by sexslave4u
Unfortunately I lost the baby...


Your old boyfriend wasn't poor, he just didn't want to hang out with someone who was absent-minded enough to lose a baby. I mean, Christ, the things make enough noise and odor that you ought to have been able to keep track of it. Did you even check the lost and found at the brothel where you work?

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The more I read the shit that this person posts, the more convinced I am that I must seriously think about euthanizing my daughter when she reaches the age of 15. *sigh*

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Hawley Griffin
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nah..just make an effort to turn her into a geek that cares not for social acceptance

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Don't get your hopes up. In order to kill them you have to stop all brain function. I found in Enron's case that there was nothing to stop.

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Talarohk
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quote:
Originally posted by bunkum
Talarohk, I almost think you're aggressively benevolent and accepting!
Aggressively? That's interesting. "Halt, or I'll say something nice to you!"
quote:
How did you become a squid, by the way? One of my dearest friends here was nicknamed "squid" by her husband.
A lifelong interest in cephalopods, nothing more. Not an interesting story.

Coincidence: Interesting point. It has been said by a person of my description that someone like me was trying to offer my own reflections on the topic, thus necessitating overuse of the first person singular. We have attempted to avoid its use entirely here in an attempt to find balance. How is the person typing this doing?

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