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Honesty with yourself

This is something that's been on my mind for a while.

ya know...

I personaly belive, that if you know something about yourself, something that's key to your nature, you should admit it to yourself and be that way.

Like, let's say you were gay or something.

I've seen alota people who were closeted. Sad, depressed, often suicidal. Some try to 'convert' themselves. Some get married and try to live a lie. I'm sure that many have been able to make it work. But, they're not happy, they can't be happy because they are living a lie. Oftentimes people in this situation cheat on their spouses, trying to give themselves an outlet without damaging their facade. It just hurts everyone in the end.

I dunno, I have a headace.

I don't understand people.

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You know, sometimes its best to name the wolf in sheep skin if you see it. Especially if you're going to go out and say there is a wolf in the herd.

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stormydoctor
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are you gay?

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not yet

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quote:
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I'd be careful with this Sara. If this person doesn't want anyone to know he/she isgay, it's really not your job to out him/her. Especially in this case, since a marriage is on the line.

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WOMAN! I didn't say that this was about anyone specifically!

cos it's not

::koff::

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Hypothetically speaking of course.

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Someone should be able to pick what kind of life they want.
And just because some one does something stupid once, especially when they are drunk doesn’t mean anything.
I’m sorry you’re feeling the way you are, the holidays can be hard sometimes, but I hope you’re not taking this where I think you are.
Maybe I should start a post about being honest with other people since you cant seem to keep a promise.

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hey, I have no problem with who I am. I have always been honest.

and what are you talking about? I didn't break any promises.

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hey, I have no problem with who I am. I have always been honest.

and what are you talking about? I didn't break any promises.



I have no problem with who I am either and one incident does not define a person.

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One incident does not, I agree. But what about all the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that go into that one action?

It wasn't done on the fly. & I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Drunkeness is never an excuse to behave otherwise when you are sober.

Being honest with yourself is always the hardest step.

Perhaps it's time you admit the truth

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Wait, does this thread count towards that 'friendly asylum' bs or are we back to our hateful norms? I can never tell with you people.

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Uhm ok, well perhaps this said person isn't really gay, but more bi-curious?

I hate using drunkeness to excuse behaviour, but in this case i think she has a point. But then again i'm not entirely sure what sort of actions you are speaking about, so i'll shut up now.

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Woah, did phorbie lick some carpet? What the hell is going on?

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PMG this is out of order.

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nevermind!

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CAL
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Respect for one's self begins with respect for other people. If you don't have the latter, you will never have the first.

Gossip does not show respect for either.

CAL :cool2:

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To hell with respect, Cal, I want story time! This is especially true if its as entertaining as it seems.

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Sara, are you claiming that Phorbie molested you?

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I am not claiming anything

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So, what are you saying then?

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I'm saying people should be honest with themselves and everyone else.

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Actually, she didnt direct the conversation to where it is now. That was done by the other people who felt the need to add literal meaning to her figurative example. Whoops.

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quote:
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nevermind!


I'm glad to see you edited your post because it was a little far from the truth

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