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Posted by CzEcH rEcK on 04-30-2002 01:20 PM:

Treat em mean.. keep em keen

I was chatting to my girlfriends best pal the other night in the pub and she say it does hold some truth.. I'm taking her sister and her new boyfriend into account here, He's a bit of a relationship wimp and does everything she asks and she complains about it all the time saying that she'd just like for him to just once say 'no' to her..
On the other hand I hear women moaning about their partners/friends partners calling them arseholes and whatnot.. I think It's all down to reasonable consideration but I also want to know where the nice guy stops and the arsehole starts (Insert witty pun here) Is there a balance? is being an arsehole/nice/over nice guy just a matter of preference

What do you think.

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My arse craves you.


Posted by Smug Git on 04-30-2002 01:24 PM:

A better model is to think of them as ambulatory vaginas running a simple reaction based program.

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Posted by CzEcH rEcK on 04-30-2002 01:30 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Smug Git
A better model is to think of them as ambulatory vaginas running a simple reaction based program.


Feminist scum.


Posted by Smug Git on 04-30-2002 01:35 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by CzEcH rEcK


Feminist scum.



No lesbianist, I.
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Posted by RiZZ on 04-30-2002 01:46 PM:

there is a line

or a switch

or something

woman scare me

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Posted by macker on 04-30-2002 01:52 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by RiZZ
there is a line


Unfortunately, this line moves on a daily basis.
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Posted by Smug Git on 04-30-2002 01:54 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by macker


Unfortunately, this line moves on a daily basis.



The rule is 'don't cross the line'.
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Posted by RiZZ on 04-30-2002 02:09 PM:

dont even look at it

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Posted by CzEcH rEcK on 04-30-2002 02:10 PM:

second rule, never talk about the line

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Originally posted by fubar
My arse craves you.


Posted by Postmodgirl on 04-30-2002 02:11 PM:

OK let me, as a chick, speak up here.

I do not want a pussy of a man that I can manipulate and control, because I won't be able to have any respect for him. HOWEVER! I also don't want some walking asshole treating me like shit and telling me what to do either. That kind of behavior will not create a kind response in me... and I hate negative conflict (yes there are other kinds).

So hey, like, my comment is.

Don't be a pussy, and don't be a dick.

... be a hermaphodite.

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Posted by Smug Git on 04-30-2002 02:14 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by CzEcH rEcK
second rule, never talk about the line


You talked about the line, you shit.
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Posted by CzEcH rEcK on 04-30-2002 02:14 PM:

quote:
PMG

Don't be a pussy, and don't be a dick.


quote:
By me

but I also want to know where the nice guy stops and the arsehole starts (Insert witty pun here) Is there a balance?


Wheres my balance wo-man?


Posted by CzEcH rEcK on 04-30-2002 02:17 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Smug Git


You talked about the line, you shit.



As a regular thread de-railer.. I never stoped to think... How much it hurts.


Posted by Postmodgirl on 04-30-2002 02:18 PM:

the balance is different for everyone... But I would suggest that you treat your chick exactly the way you'd want to be treated in a relationship. and if you have a problem or a question, DON'T PLAY HEAD GAMES!, just fucking ask.... and never compromise personal integrity.

there's a slight brain fart...

and thar ya ar


Posted by aminal on 04-30-2002 03:42 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Postmodgirl
Don't be a pussy, and don't be a dick.

... be a hermaphodite.



or a eunuch
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Posted by karen on 04-30-2002 04:13 PM:

I really used to like passive men a lot.
I thought tal was fairly passive until he moved in. He's not even remotely passive. Quite the opposite, even. And I think I like this a LOT better. He's not an asshole either, btw.
I'm becoming a little more passive, as well. I think I like that, too.

*puts on her submissive outfit*


Posted by Smug Git on 04-30-2002 04:20 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by karen
I really used to like passive men a lot.



This is too much information about Brad.
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Posted by pj on 04-30-2002 04:22 PM:

im not qualified to talk here.

*leaves thread quietly*

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Posted by karen on 04-30-2002 04:25 PM:

quote:
Originally posted by Smug Git


This is too much information about Brad.



hahaha

brad wasnt overtly passive, though. he was just really "cooperative", Id say.


I realised right away that tal wasnt passive. my big hint was the second he got off the bus he grabbed me, pushed me up against the bus and kissed me so hard it left a scar on my chin from his stubble. I had to tell people at work that I got in a motorcycle accident. hehe(yes, it was THAT badly scratched up).
Another big hint would be the fact that hes never hit me, but Ive had bruises all over me since the day he got here. aggressive little bugger, no?


Posted by Sabine on 04-30-2002 05:06 PM:

shuddup bitch..
you're just trying to share that you've had lots of rough sex.
*pouts*


Posted by karen on 04-30-2002 07:28 PM:


Posted by Mordecai on 04-30-2002 10:11 PM:

damn vows of celibacy.

-m

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Posted by Dog Breath on 04-30-2002 10:25 PM:

Try different levels of "asshole".
When you find her optimum level just increase it by about 130%.
That should work.

Damn bitches need a smackdown now and then to remind them they are inferior.


Posted by LEATHERBUTT on 04-30-2002 10:49 PM:

Cool

quote:
Originally posted by Postmodgirl
the balance is different for everyone... But I would suggest that you treat your chick exactly the way you'd want to be treated in a relationship. and if you have a problem or a question, DON'T PLAY HEAD GAMES!, just fucking ask.... and never compromise personal integrity.

there's a slight brain fart...

and thar ya ar



This I totally agree with.

Being on the same wave length helps but all parties like playing the dominant one in places. Believe me with a man the size of CzEcH rEcK you give in.


Posted by Postmodgirl on 04-30-2002 10:51 PM:

know that from personal experience there Mr Butt?


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