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euphorbia
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a question about teh ghey

Is it possible that man who claims he isnt gay to be ok with just getting head from dudes if that is the only sexual thing he does with guys and really not be gay?

He isnt sexually attracted to men, he doesnt kiss them or fuck them (aside from their mouth) and he has never been buggered.

could it just be a deviant power thing? or is he likely gay and not come to terms with it?

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3rd option: he likes to have sex with men because its easier

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I agree with Hawley.

Men are weird. It doesn't always fit into a nice sexuality binary. Remember, this is a gender that has been known to occasionally have sex with livestock.

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Re: a question about teh ghey

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Is it possible that man who claims he isnt gay to be ok with just getting head from dudes if that is the only sexual thing he does with guys and really not be gay?

He isnt sexually attracted to men, he doesnt kiss them or fuck them (aside from their mouth) and he has never been buggered.

could it just be a deviant power thing? or is he likely gay and not come to terms with it?



Let's just stop beating around the bush right here. Dogcow isn't gay. It's just that after so many lines and so many shots the males and females in his area are nearly indistinguishable.

You're being racist and homophobic at the same time. Stop giving him such a hard time and he'll stop partying so hard.

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n.b. I'm not comparing being teh ghey to being into having sex with livestock.

My point is there's usually not much point in getting hung up on "Gay? Yes/No". Sexuality is way too fluid to be pinned down into such easy classifications sometimes.

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actually, with out hanging any prejudice to the word, he would be considered homosexual or gay by the definition. or atleast the activity would be. It appears they have broadened the definition from being attracted sexually to the same sex, to also just engaging in sexual activity with the same sex.

I just looked it up and thats why I think the definition has been broadened, which blows my whole, " I dont think a man who fucks a tranny is gay if the reason he fucked the tranny was because it looked like a woman." all to hell.

I do see what you guys are saying, that opportunity to spill your man seed can be just that, spilling your seed whether its in a dirty sock, a cantaloupe, a sheeps ass or some gay dudes mouth.

Im dating a guy who has received head from dudes on three different occasions, he is a pretty good looking and fit guy and I can see why the ghey bois would be falling all over themselves, and I admire that he was so honest about it when I know it was hard for him, however, I dont want to invest much in this relationship if he is gay and not come to terms with it or is with me because he thinks Im tom boyish enough to appeal to his favored sexual hungers and its easier to bring me around his family than some gay guy, just so in a year or two he decides he would rather pursue that alternative life style. Im getting old and junk. He does comment on how feminine and sexy he finds me, and he is always ready to go (fuck me) Im just a little paranoid I guess and guys who are hiding their true sexuality are usually great actors and can lie fantastically and continually for long periods of time. Im not in the mood for another thespian.


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and he is always ready to go (fuck me) Im just a little paranoid


not keen on surprise buttsekz?

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not keen on surprise buttsekz?


themz fighten words.

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You could always dump 'im and have sex with me.

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If a guy who is the roommate of a guy that glanced at another guy who grooms the dog of a chick that lives with a guy that thought he saw an old high school friend that might think "Gay Eye fo the Straight Guy" to be a cool show, I'd kill him. For god.

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my honest, not fucking with you because it's you posting, advice is... if it happened once, it's just something that happened, a heat of the moment/opportunity thing. if it happened twice, then maybe he just happened to be in the right place again. but three times says he's actively seeking it out. and if he's as good looking as you think he is, he shouldn't be that hard up to find a loose pretty girl who'd do it for him just as easily as a guy.

no matter what he's telling you, he likes it, and probably for more than the idea of sexual power. even if that is the case, that'd spell out some deep shit that maybe you don't want to be around your kids anyway. *shrugs* you know the situation better than we do, just going on what you posted.

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Copy/Paste your blowjob post. That is all any of us really want to hear from you; honest injun.

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actually, with out hanging any prejudice to the word, he would be considered homosexual or gay by the definition.


Well no, if you want to use strict definitions, I'd guess he'd be bisexual. By definition (getting head from guys, sexzoring you).

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I think that you shouldn't read too much into all this,forbes,cause it's like....he could have lied to you.
He was straight honest about it all. But then there's the "What if you fall for him and one day you catch him botty bopping your brother or some shit?"
I say life's full of up's and down's. Life is too short NOT to give it a whirl.

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Well no, if you want to use strict definitions, I'd guess he'd be bisexual. By definition (getting head from guys, sexzoring you).


Ok, that smacked of insight into your lurid and Paulian world.

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The correct answer: Drop the putznosher like a bad habit and get yourself a real man. Otherwise, what grief doesn't devour of you, AIDS eventually will. And then you will be saying to yourself, "Ya know? I was on this forum that I used to call home before my vagina prolapsed in a goatseque sort of way leaving it dragging on the floor behind me like a scarlet sea cucumber, and I remember this brialliant and dashingly handsome fellow who also frequented that forum said to me, his left eyebrow lifted in a way that made my juices flow, 'Drop the putznosher like a bad habit and get yourself a real man. Otherwise, what grief doesn't devour of you, AIDS eventually will. And then you will be saying to yourself, 'Ya know? I was on this forum that I used to call home before my vagina prolapsed in a goatseque sort of way leaving it dragging on the floor behind me like a scarlet sea cucumber.'

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if it happened once, it's just something that happened, a heat of the moment/opportunity thing. if it happened twice, then maybe he just happened to be in the right place again. but three times says he's actively seeking it out. and if he's as good looking as you think he is, he shouldn't be that hard up to find a loose pretty girl who'd do it for him just as easily as a guy.


That's so far from the truth it's not even funny.

You might be right about it being an issue in their relationship, but you missed the reasons by a few thousand miles.

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Ok, that smacked of insight into your lurid and Paulian world.


I'd be lying if I said I don't speak from a little personal experience.

I bet you'd be amazed by the amount of people who've had homosexual experiences. Everybody's got issues; everybody's got shit in their past. I mean, phorbs, you were a stripper for chrissakes; from my personal experience, I'd be a helluva lot less likely to date an ex-stripper than an ex-bi-curious chick. And, I'm guessing that you haven't been seeing him long; on the list of "Shit That Could Go Wrong In This Relationship", "Him Turning Gay Sometime After Our Tenth Wedding Anniversary" probably isn't very high on the list. There's a whole host of other shit that'll go wrong well before that. "Me Freaking Out About His Past Sexual Exploits and Sabotaging The Relationship Or Driving Him Away" is probably more likely by a magnitude of some hundred. I guess it's a remote possibility, the scenario you talk about. But there's a hundred more plausible ones too. At some point, you just have to live a little. No need to be reckless, but no need to be overly paranoid either.

There's a potential relationship-killer inside every person you'll ever meet, period. Usually a lot more than one. You either learn to deal with that in people, or you don't.

If he wanted to be gay, he could surely just go off and be gay. But he's not, he's wanting to be with you. That's the real bottom line.

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I agree with Hawley.

Men are weird. It doesn't always fit into a nice sexuality binary. Remember, this is a gender that has been known to occasionally have sex with livestock.



This post deserves a point. But I don't have any. Sorry.

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Why? Cause no chick has "known" a farm animal? Please. Paint's confessions don't deserve points, they deserve therapy.

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I'd be lying if I said I don't speak from a little personal experience.

...everybody's got shit in their past. ...



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Honestly, 4b. Any port in a storm.

If he's not attracted to men, he's not queer. If he's okay with havin a guy suck his dick, and even enjoys it, then he's got fewer hangups about sex than most guys and is likely just a horny fucker. Enjoy that part.


oh, and post pics, plz.

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probably half the guys I've been with could be designated as straight. They may have had queer sex with me, but I doubt many of em lie awake at night fantasizing about my naked body hovering over them. There are a few of them who I'd consider bisexual, but all of that is rather meaningless to me anyway. Never forget the Mugtoe Sexuality Spectrum and the fact that this is, in fact, a rather fluid circumstance in most people's lives, even if they generally tend to stay on one end or the other.

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Well no, if you want to use strict definitions, I'd guess he'd be bisexual. By definition (getting head from guys, sexzoring you).


well no, if you are sexually attracted to men at all youre gay, everyone who is bisexual is gay also, you cant be bi and not gay, you can be gay and not bi though.

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