Well, the SO & I split up again. Really no suprise to me, I've been expecting something like this for the last couple of weeks. She says she's tired of men & relationships, wants to be her "own person", live with just herself and her daughter. She claimed she didn't feel free to come & go as she pleased & see her friends, yadayadayada, yet I never once told her she couldn't do as she pleased or go off on her own. She claimed I "freaked out" when a friend of hers came over one day & gave her a hug (the guy is a ex-relative of hers). She must have been hallucinating, because I didn't care at all about the hug. All the other stuff & reasons she brought up I proved her wrong about them. I think she doesn't want to admit she's found a new guy. She claims that she's spending the night tonight at her Mom's. I will call over there on a pretext to find out if she is really there or not.
Meanwhile, she is still living here until she gets a new place & finances straightened out. I now have my freedom back, and I am kinda bummed about the break-up, but not much. Mostly it's a relief to me it happened. So expect to hear from me more often on here from now on. You have been warned.
Long live TIH!
"History does not repeat itself -- historians merely repeat each other."
Tif called me Wednesday to announce that she is moving to Seattle. Funny how that works. She was supposed to call me again yesterday because I was too exhausted for anything on wednesday. I haven't heard a damn thing from her. I'd call myself ditched. Gee darn.